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What makes a silly love song?
Plus, how lonely people see the world
“I wanted the kids at the top of the hierarchy to think I was one of them, rather than one of those guys at the bottom of the hierarchy.” –psychologist Elliot Aronson
Silly love songs. In a new study, researchers asked people around the world – including very small, isolated communities – to listen to snippets of different songs in different languages and identify their genre. Were they dance songs, lullabies, healing music, or love songs? Across the board, people were really good at identifying dance music and lullabies. They were also pretty good at identifying healing music. But they really had trouble with the love songs. “One reason for this could be that love songs may be a particularly fuzzy category that includes songs that express happiness and attraction, but also sadness and jealousy,” said lead author Lidya Yurdum. Think you know your love songs? Test yourself here.
Only the lonely. Loneliness affects us in ways we might not even realize. It increases the risk of heart disease and heart failure, for example. A recent study suggests that lonely people also process the world differently. In the study, participants were asked to complete the UCLA Loneliness Scale, a survey that measures a person’s feelings of loneliness and social isolation. Their brain patterns were then tracked while they watched different types of videos – everything from music to sports to party scenes. “People who suffer from loneliness are not only less similar to society’s norm of processing the world, but each lonely person differs in unique ways, as well,” reported SciTechDaily. Because lonely people have a hard time even finding similarities with each other, this could further reinforce their social isolation, said researcher Elisa Baek. The solutions aren’t easy, but some have ideas about how to fix the problem of loneliness.
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